courtship

 courtship

Courtship,which is a prelude to marriage should not be taken lightly The most use should be made of it.One should not be carried away with the romance associated with courtship. It is important to get to know your intended spouse properly during this period.You have to learn to watch out for subtle signs that suggests masked behavior.

 Conflicting interests that are at opposite ends of the sprectrum should be dealt with and not overlooked.If you are a woman,what are his views about you working?Would he rather you stayed at home when you would rather, like to get to the Zenith of your chosen profession?As a man,what are her views about you  travelling frequently and being away from home for extended periods when your job demands it,or moving house often?

Ease of conversation is another area you have to watch out for.Lack of conversation or difficulty of it in any relationship will lead to it's collapse. Lack of regular quality conversation will create a sea of distance between couples and make them feel like strangers with each other.They have to feel comfortable with each other.Conversations should not be one sided or dominated by one person.If one party does all the talking or does not reckon with the opinion of the other,that is a bad sign that should call for concern.Remember,a failed relationship is better than a failed marriage.